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By Susan Shekut, MA, Clinical Professional Psychology, Owner, Working Well Massage, Licensed Massage Therapist, Wellness Coach, ACSM Personal Trainer

Undergoing cancer treatment is stressful. Trying to take care of your housecleaning adds to that stress.  Cleaning For a Reason offers free house cleaning services to women, 19 years or older, undergoing treatment for cancer (any type of cancer) in the United States and Canada.

Incorporated in Texas in 2006 as a not-for-profit foundation, Cleaning for a Reason has provided more than 17,000 cleanings nationally for  women, with a value of more than $4,500,000 with the help of over 1,100 participating maid services who volunteer their time to clean.

 

 

How Does The Service Work?

Cleaning for a Reason partners with professional residential maid services (who are insured or insured or bonded and perform background checks on their employees) to participate in our foundation. The partner companies take 2 patients at a time and offer each patient 4 free cleanings, one a month for 4 consecutive months as a way to give back to their community. Patient applications are accepted online. Once Cleaning for a Reason staff receive a patient’s physician’s verification of treatment, they match the patients with a maid service partner. Patients can schedule cleaning services through the partner maid service while they are undergoing treatment or at a time that is convenient for them. FAQ page here.

 

How Do Patients Sign Up For the Services?

Patients Can Sign Up Here by filling out a short online application.    Do not contact the cleaning service directly.

 

How Can I Help?

Cleaning For a Reason cleaning services are not done by volunteers. However, the foundation does need donations and volunteers in other capacities for fundraising and office work in local partner offices.   Donations are always needed and appreciated as well as being tax-deductible. Click here to donate to Cleaning For a Reason. If you are able to Donate $1000 or more, become a sponsor by clicking here.

 

How Did Cleaning For a Reason Get Started?

From their website: Cleaning for a Reason was the brainchild of President and Founder, Debbie Sardone, owner of Buckets & Bows Maid Service, Lewisville, TX.

President/Founder

Debbie Sardone, President/Founder of Cleaning For a Reason

Debbie took a phone call from a prospective client several years ago. After providing the woman a price quote, the prospect paused before saying, “I won’t be able to afford that now; I’m undergoing cancer treatment” and hung up. Debbie hadn’t gotten the woman’s phone number and was unable to call back to make arrangements. In that instant, Debbie decided that no woman undergoing cancer treatment would ever be turned down by her business. In fact, they would be given free housecleaning service.

Calling her staff, Debbie announced the new policy, which the company has used over and over, through the years. In 2005, Debbie shared her story with other maid services at a national cleaning industry convention. She shared her conviction that it was these women, undergoing the physical, emotional; and financial rigors of cancer treatment, who needed professional housecleaning services the most. An onslaught of cleaning business owners began expressing their interest and support. When she returned to Texas, Debbie registered Cleaning For A Reason as a 501(c) 3 non-profit corporation. With word of this at the next convention, maid services began signing up to donate their services on the spot.

 

Why Not Offer Cleaning Services to Men or People With Other Illnesses

While Debbie and the foundation would like to help everyone, they realized they do not have the resources to offer their services to a wide range of people with a variety of illnesses. The team at Cleaning for a Reason wants to remain focused on their primary mission. However, others are free to start free cleaning or helping services with their own foundation. Debbie and Cleaning For a Reason is a great role model for how to go about creating such a service!

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By Sue Shekut, Owner, Working Well Massage, Licensed Massage Therapist, Wellness Coach, ACSM Personal Trainer

After the long winter, many of us are struggling with a few extra pounds. But is the cause of weight gain an attempt a t human hibernation or is it emotional eating? Check out this short article on WebMD about the causes of binge eating. Elizabeth Lee, writes about former FDA Commissioner David Kessler, MD’s comments about how our biology and our neurology are culprits in the overeating process. Read the post, “Compulsive Overeating and How to Stop It” here.  Then have a carrot and a cucumber!

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By Sue Shekut, Owner, Working Well Massage, Licensed Massage Therapist, Wellness Coach, ACSM Personal Trainer

It’s cold. It’s winter. It’s Chicago. Children (and parents!) can get antsy sitting indoors with nothing to do. Here are some mostly free events and activities for Chicago area parents and children to do when it is cold outside!

Windy City Hoops

Free basketball at Chicago Park Districts For Boys and girls ages 12-18. Fridays 7-10pm and Saturdays from 5-10pm available at ten Chicago park district locations. Click here for more info or to sign up.
Windy City Hoops
Windy City Hoops

Chicago Park District Ceramic Studies

Chicago Park District has Ceramic locations throughout the city that offer the opportunity to play with clay from casting to wheel and hand building. Click here for more info and list of the ceramic studios.

Chi League Parks

Offered by Nike, free basketball skills clinics in citywide parks, giving Chicago’s children a safe, healthy place to play. For kids ages 9-12 and 13-18 years of age. Saturdays from 10am to 2pm the free clinics take place before Chicago Hoops in Chicago area indoor gyms. Click here for more info. (Note dates on the website are for 2013. Call the park District for dates for 2014.)

Chicago Public Library

Chicago area libraries have all kinds of events, from Toddler time and story time events to LEGO time to lessons on learning how to crochet and knit. Teens can attend the FUSE workshops which gives them opportunities to  complete challenges in robotics, electronics, biotechnology, 3-D printing, and Android app development. And families can attend “Game Night” to play board games and card games in a  warm comfy environment. Click here for the Chicago Public Library event page. (Note: each day lists events so you may want to use narrow your search by selecting the event type and your zip code.

Free Days at Chicago Area Museums

Chicago Parent magazine provides a listing of free days at our local museums here.

Chicago Area Art Spaces For Kids

Jeanette Nyberg’s Artchoo Blog here provides a listing of all the Chicago area Art spaces that cater to kids or provides kid friendly classes and events, Some of them may be free, others may have a fee, but this is the best list of art for kids in Chicago I’ve found. And her blog is really great for parents that want to expose and involve their  kids in crafts. Great for kids that are hyperactive or diagnosed with ADHD.

Photo from the School of the Art Institute of Chicago
Photo from the School of the Art Institute of Chicago website
Call or check the web sites first for unexpected closings or events.
 Time Out Chicago‘s Liz Plosser created  a great list of a few really fun places for parents to take kids during the winter here.

Her list includes:

Broadway Armory Park

Chicago Park District’s Indoor recreation building at 5917 N Broadway. Gym and track open Mondays-Fridays 7am to 9pm. Indoor climbing Wall open 6:30pm-8:30pm (Register online at chicagoparkdistrict.com)

Grounds For Hope Café

Three themed  play rooms in Lisle, IL: Treasure House, Wonder House and Tree House for kids to explore. Grounds offers  craft classes, Spanish lessons and music courses as well as the big play rooms. Free Wi-Fi for parents. 2701 Maple Ave, Lisle (630-390-1290, groundsforhopecafe.org). Free. Ages 10 and under. Open Mon–Sat 9am–7pm; Sun 9am–1pm.

Chicago Women’s Park and Gardens

Chicago Park District building in the South Loop boasts a climbing wall and a jungle gym and playhouse with padded floor. Located at 1801 S Indiana Ave (312-328-0821). Free. Ages six months–12. Open Mon, Fri 9am–6:30pm; Tue noon–6:30pm; Wed noon–5pm; Thu, Sat 1:30–4:30pm.

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• CBS Chicago’s Best Bad Weather Activities For Kids In Chicago click here.

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The time-course of an immune response begins w...

The time-course of an immune response begins with the initial pathogen encounter, (or initial vaccination) and leads to the formation and maintenance of active immunological memory. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

By Sue Shekut, Owner, Working Well Massage, Licensed Massage Therapist, Wellness Coach, ACSM Personal Trainer

I recently came across an article, “Boosting the immune system–sorting science from myth,”
that explains, from a scientific perspective, why claims of supplements and foods that “boost the immune system response” are not reliable. Simply put, the blog post author, Skeptical Raptor, explains that the immune system is a complex multifaceted system that basically works in an “on/off” fashion. The immune system includes physical barriers (skin, inflammation, mucus, tears, saliva), biochemical agents and cells (especially white blood cells and all the goodies they bring to the immune system party like macrophages). The blog post explains in-depth the mechanics of the immune system and then Skeptical Raptor points out that one of the only effective ways to “boost” our immune systems is through getting vaccinated for various diseases. And he states that if we were to be able to boost our immune system or make it more powerful, we would likely cause more serious problems such as an immune system that attacks healthy types (known as an autoimmune response) or allergies.

What he writes makes sense from what I know about the immune system. We do know that some things like stress can make it more difficult for our immune systems to work properly. And I will go out on a limb and say that there is evidence that allowing ourselves to rest and relax also allows our bodies to protect us from disease and illness more effectively. (I admit, that seems like a no brainer, but the U.S. culture does such a fine job of rewarding those that are productive and rewarding output more than being contemplative, relaxing and resting, that our need for rest and relaxation cannot be emphasized enough!) Massage therapy has some research behind it as a tool to help people relax/better handle stress.

I personally find that if I feel run down, doing less (as in taking on less responsibilities and commitments) and allowing myself to take a nap, engage in some relaxing activities and especially getting enough sleep each night, helps me resist illness or get over an illness better than most other interventions. Rest is not magic. It does not come in a pill (nor a cup of java!)  Rest allows our bodies to engage in some parasympathetic nervous system activity. Rest is not “being lazy.,” It is not “unproductive.” Rest is a valuable tool for people to use to maintain health and well-being!

Note: I am not a doctor and none of my information should be construed as medical advice. Discuss any decisions about the use of vaccines  with a licensed health care professional.

Read the entire article here and tell me what you think in the comments below!

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By Sue Shekut, Owner, Working Well Massage, Licensed Massage Therapist, Wellness Coach, ACSM Personal Trainer

Costa Rica is a country of many different climates and elevations. From mountains to rain forest to sandy ocean beaches, Costa Rica has it all! But you do not need to actually travel to Costa Rica to experience the beauty and relaxation to be found there. Enjoy the photos below to help you  handle stress and relax your nervous system. Then think about your favorite place and either plan a trip there, or go there using your mind with creative visualization.

Costa Rican Beaches Make Relaxation a Normal part of Life. Photo by Sue Shekut.

Costa Rican Beaches Make Relaxation a Normal part of Life. Photo by Sue Shekut.

Montezuma Costa Rica's Best Swimming Beach. Photo by Sue Shekut

Montezuma, Costa Rica’s Best Swimming  Boat Docking Beach. Photo by Sue Shekut

 

Rocky beaches provide great exercise for your legs and the consistency of crashing waves relax your nervous system! Photo by Sue Shekut

Rocky beaches provide great exercise for your legs and the consistency of crashing waves relax your nervous system! Photo by Sue Shekut

 

Where are your favorite places to relax? When you visualize relaxation places, what do you imagine?

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By Sue Shekut, Owner, Working Well Massage, Licensed Massage Therapist, Wellness Coach, ACSM Personal Trainer

Chicago area cyclists, get your ride on this Sunday at the Palos Meltdown hosted by CAMBr, Chicago Area Mount Bikers.
On line registration is now closed but you can register at the race itself on Sunday. Details on start times for each age group here.

Race Cost: $40 Race Day Registration, On Site at CAMBr Registration Tent. Cash or check ONLY. NOTE: Registration closes 45 minutes prior to the start time of each race.

To become a supporting member of CAMBr AND get a discount on your race registration at http://join.cambr.org

Racing Palos!

Racing Palos!

7th Annual Palos Meltdown Hosts 2013 Midwest Regional XC Championships!

Race details from the CAMBr website: The Palos Meltdown is Chicagoland’s premier mountain bike event. With racing for all ages and abilities this event draws riders from all over the region. In it’s fifth consecutive year, the Meltdown is held as a fundraiser for CAMBr to help build and maintain mountain bike trails in Chicagoland.

The race is held on Palos Forest Preserve’s extensive singletrack trail system just half an hour outside of Chicago. The trails are flowy, fun and built with all levels of rider in mind.

The event strives to keep a fun family atmosphere while providing a both challenging and fun race experience for first timers to the seasoned elite athlete. For 2013 we have changes planned to help further raise the level of fun and racing excitement!

COURSE DESCRIPTION

Palos Meltdown!

Palos Meltdown!

From CAMBr website: Snaking, fast and flowy singletrack is what Palos is known for. The course will meander itself over rolling hills and around lakes and sloughs. Much of the course is on rolling terrain so riders looking for elevation change won’t be disappointed! The course will offer leg stinging climbs and exciting descents. The trails are built for all levels of riding ability. Faster riders will find them much more challenging as obstacles such as ravines and roots become a challenge at speed.

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By Sue Shekut, Owner, Working Well Massage, Licensed Massage Therapist, Wellness Coach, ACSM Personal Trainer

I stumbled on a fantastic blog today written by a licensed therapist from Colorado, Tamara G. Suttle. Ms. Suttle offers a wide range of advice on life change, creativity and handling trauma. I especially enjoyed reading her post, “First Steps For Dismantling Your Inner Critic,” “Resources To Boost Your Personal Power And Self Acceptance,” and “Are You In Search Of Happiness?

  • Tamara G. Suttle Counseling - Licensed Professional Counselor
  • Learn more about Ms. Suttle here.

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By Sue Shekut, Owner, Working Well Massage, Licensed Massage Therapist, Wellness Coach, ACSM Personal Trainer

One of the reasons I enjoy visiting Costa Rica is that the natural beauty of the country relaxes my nervous system. Sitting by the ocean and just watching the birds fly over the water, listening to the sounds of waves lapping at the rocky shoreline and feeling the sun on my skin helps my body naturally relax and soothes the stress from big city life. I’m sharing a few photos with you so that you can  visually experience some of the peace and beauty of Costa Rica. More to come!

Costa Rican Shoreline. Montezuma, CR. Photo by Sue Shekut.

Costa Rican Shoreline. Montezuma, CR. Photo by Sue Shekut.

Another reason to visit Costa Rica is the variety of adventure tours you can undertake. Weather you join a tour group or venture out on your own, the ocean, the jungle and the shore have many wonders to enjoy!

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The little town of Montezuma is only two streets, a few restaurants and shops and many small hotels with yoga classes. A tour company boat drops off adventurous tourists after a long day at sea! Montezuma beach was the least rocky and best swimming in the area this Spring. Photo by Sue Shekut.

I found that walking the rocky shoreline and hiking in shallow water gave my legs a great workout! You can’t help but climb and balance as you walk along the shore. It’s an excellent workout for lower legs and helps improve your balance.

 

Walking and climbing the rocky Costa Rican shoreline gives your legs a great workout! Photo by Sue Shekut.

Walking and climbing the rocky Costa Rican shoreline gives your legs a great workout! Photo by Sue Shekut.

 

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By Sue Shekut, Owner, Working Well Massage, Licensed Massage Therapist, Wellness Coach, ACSM Personal Trainer

For the past few years, I’ve been reading and learning more about evidence-based practices, research methods, and, sadly, the paucity of solid research backing up the medical benefits of massage therapy. While some members of the massage community are diligently working to improve the quality and quantity of massage research, there are many misconceptions about massage that have been taught to massage therapists in massage school and then passed on to massage clients. Some of these misconceptions have to do with the idea that “massage releases toxins” (technically, it does not and what people mean by “toxins”is unclear as well), that you must drink water after a massage (often as way to “flush” these said” toxins”). Some massage therapists and massage clients believe massage is a healing modality and that massage can release muscle “knots,”  While massage can reduce muscle tension, the conceptualization of knots in our muscles is misleading.  Many of these claims have either been seriously called into question, or explained to be misconceptions caused by massage school instructors trying to simplify physiological explanations.

More will be revealed about how massage therpy works

More will be revealed about how massage therapy works

That all said, I do believe that massage has some physical, mental and possibly, medical benefits. I do believe that most massage therapists genuinely want to help people feel better, want to use massage as  a healing tool and are doing their best to teach clients what they know about the benefits of massage. And I think that while it is important to understand the mechanism of how massage therapist works on our bodies and minds, for now until the research we need pours forth, I would like to propose a few simple explanations as to how massage can benefit us:

1. Most massage therapy, whether performed on a massage chair or massage table, puts the person being massaged into a really relaxing comfortable position. And in our culture, people rarely have a chance to relax or just sit. If we sit down to relax, we often think we are being lazy or unproductive. So giving ourselves permission to get a massage “for our health” or to “reduce stress” allows us to give ourselves permission to sit down and do relatively nothing for a period of time. It’s not magical. It’s not mystical. But relaxing is good for our health. By sitting down or laying down for a period of time, from 10 minutes to an hour or more, allows our nervous systems to move from sympathetic (fight or flight adrenaline pumping mode) to parasympathetic resting and digesting mode).

Just laying down on a massage table is relaxing

Just laying down on a massage table is relaxing

This may seem obvious to you, and you may think, “well what’s the big deal about that?” The big deal is this, in my experience few people in this culture will take the time to just sit down and do nothing or to lay down and relax, especially during a work day or when the kids needs help with homework or they want to spend time with friends. Relaxing is only socially acceptable if we do it in a structured environment like during a massage or while doing meditation. (Even though yoga was originally designed to calm the nervous system and relax the body, in the U.S., we even add words like “power” to yoga and add weight training to a yoga session! Which in my view, really defeats the purpose of doing yoga in the first place.)

2. Another aspect of our culture is that we are super “busy”…and often touch deprived. Our to do lists have to do lists. If we are not accomplishing, if we are not helping kids, parents or friends or making money (or being good consumers by spending money) we are not being “responsible, we are not being “productive” and we are not being “good” parents, children, neighbors, workers, bosses, employees, friends, community members. We are, in an unspoken way, not supposed to take time for ourselves (unless it is to work out, “power” style) because that is considered to be “selfish.” But getting a massage lets a person take care of him or herself without guilt. Instead of this being a selfish act, getting a massage is now seen an act of self caring. If we do not take care of ourselves, we cannot give to others because we will be too sick or too stressed out to be of much use! When you get a massage we allow ourselves to say, “hey this is my hour, or my ten minutes and I want the attention to be on me. I want to feel good, I want to be touched in a positive,  kind way, without the touch feeling sexual or violent or ticklish. And it is for my health so it’s okay in this instance for me to do something for my self.

Getting a massage gives you a little window of time for self care

Getting a massage gives you a little window of time for self care

Likely down the road, we will be able to use science to explain the psychology of massage through random clinical trails. Someday soon we will be able to point to research that shows more specifically how one person touching another via massage actually causes the recipient’s nervous system to shift into parasympathetic mode. But for now, I am content in my own explanations. I know my clients, and clients of other Working Well Massage therapists, benefit from our massages. I know people relax and enjoy getting massages. The science will come. Until then, we will keep providing relaxation, comfort and care to massage clients. And we will acknowledge and encourage their willingness to take care of themselves.

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By Sue Shekut, Owner, Working Well Massage, Licensed Massage Therapist, Wellness Coach, ACSM Personal Trainer

This past weekend, we decided to get out of the big city and spend some time in nature!  We went to Raccoon Grove in Monee, IL, and saw our first strong signs of Spring.

Raccoon Grove, Monee, IL

Raccoon Grove, Monee, IL

Green buds poking out of the brown dead leaves was a god sign that Spring really is approaching.

Spring peeking through the Fall leaves

Spring peeking through the Fall leaves

I also took a minute to record the soothing sounds of a bubbling brook. Listening to water rushing over stones, like listening to a small waterfall, can be peaceful and relaxing.  Enjoy the video and make a plan to visit a nearby Forest Preserve soon yourself!

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